Robust geo-localization in changing environmental conditions is critical for long-term aerial autonomy. While visual place recognition (VPR) models perform well when airborne views match the training domain, adapting them to shifting distributions during sequential missions triggers catastrophic forgetting. Existing continual learning (CL) methods often fail here because geographic features exhibit severe intra-class variations. In this work, we formulate aerial VPR as a mission-based domain-incremental learning (DIL) problem and propose a novel heterogeneous memory framework. To respect strict onboard storage constraints, our "Learn-and-Dispose" pipeline decouples geographic knowledge into static satellite anchors (preserving global geometric priors) and a dynamic experience replay buffer (retaining domain-specific features). We introduce a spatially-constrained allocation strategy that optimizes buffer selection based on sample difficulty or feature space diversity. To facilitate systematic assessment, we provide three evaluation criteria and a comprehensive benchmark derived from 21 diverse mission sequences. Extensive experiments demonstrate that our architecture significantly boosts spatial generalization; our diversity-driven buffer selection outperforms the random baseline by 7.8% in knowledge retention. Unlike class-mean preservation methods that fail in unstructured environments, maximizing structural diversity achieves a superior plasticity-stability balance and ensures order-agnostic robustness across randomized sequences. These results prove that maintaining structural feature coverage is more critical than sample difficulty for resolving catastrophic forgetting in lifelong aerial autonomy.