Volume microscopy, including electron and light microscopy, suffers from severe anisotropic resolution due to physical axial sectioning. Existing self-supervised axial super-resolution (ASR) methods face a trilemma bounded by overly smoothed regression textures, structural hallucinations of pure diffusion models, and prohibitive inference latency. In this paper, we propose Skeleton-refinE Microscopy (SkelEM), a self-supervised framework that decouples ASR at the training-signal level: a frozen topological network and a diffusion refiner are optimized by disjoint objectives, separating low-frequency topology formulation from high-frequency detail enhancement. Building on this deterministic skeleton, we exploit a unified cycle-consistent mechanism on input sparse slices to simultaneously extract a real-domain residual prior and bidirectionally align the diffusion refiner, washing away cross-plane artifacts without synthetic bias. By truncating the reverse diffusion process with this physical prior, SkelEM achieves high-fidelity detail restoration in merely $\le 5$ steps. To rigorously assess cross-instrument generalization, we further introduce BRAVE-ASR, a new benchmark of co-aligned anisotropic and isotropic volumes acquired on a Plasma-FIB instrument. Across public benchmarks, SkelEM achieves the most favorable balance across the fidelity-perception trade-off among self-supervised methods, with state-of-the-art downstream membrane segmentation performance and robust zero-shot generalization across distinct modalities.