Learning to Forget -- Hierarchical Episodic Memory for Lifelong Robot Deployment

Robots must verbalize their past experiences when users ask "Where did you put my keys?" or "Why did the task fail?" Yet maintaining life-long episodic memory (EM) from continuous multimodal perception quickly exceeds storage limits and makes real-time query impractical, calling for selective forgetting that adapts to users' notions of relevance. We present H$^2$-EMV, a framework enabling humanoids to learn what to remember through user interaction. Our approach incrementally constructs hierarchical EM, selectively forgets using language-model-based relevance estimation conditioned on learned natural-language rules, and updates these rules given user feedback about forgotten details. Evaluations on simulated household tasks and 20.5-hour-long real-world recordings from ARMAR-7 demonstrate that H$^2$-EMV maintains question-answering accuracy while reducing memory size by 45% and query-time compute by 35%. Critically, performance improves over time - accuracy increases 70% in second-round queries by adapting to user-specific priorities - demonstrating that learned forgetting enables scalable, personalized EM for long-term human-robot collaboration.

Episodic Memory Verbalization using Hierarchical Representations of Life-Long Robot Experience

Verbalization of robot experience, i.e., summarization of and question answering about a robot's past, is a crucial ability for improving human-robot interaction. Previous works applied rule-based systems or fine-tuned deep models to verbalize short (several-minute-long) streams of episodic data, limiting generalization and transferability. In our work, we apply large pretrained models to tackle this task with zero or few examples, and specifically focus on verbalizing life-long experiences. For this, we derive a tree-like data structure from episodic memory (EM), with lower levels representing raw perception and proprioception data, and higher levels abstracting events to natural language concepts. Given such a hierarchical representation built from the experience stream, we apply a large language model as an agent to interactively search the EM given a user's query, dynamically expanding (initially collapsed) tree nodes to find the relevant information. The approach keeps computational costs low even when scaling to months of robot experience data. We evaluate our method on simulated household robot data, human egocentric videos, and real-world robot recordings, demonstrating its flexibility and scalability.