Accurate prediction of antibody-antigen binding affinity is fundamental to therapeutic design, yet remains constrained by severe label sparsity and the complexity of antigenic variations. In this paper, we propose AbLWR (Antibody-antigen binding affinity List-Wise Ranking), a novel framework that reformulates the conventional affinity regression task as a listwise ranking problem. To mitigate label sparsity, AbLWR incorporates a PU (Positive-Unlabeled) learning mechanism leveraging a dual-level contrastive objective and meta-optimized label refinement to learn robust representations. Furthermore, we address antigenic variation by employing a homologous antigen sampling strategy where Multi-Head Self-Attention (MHSA) explicitly models inter-sample relationships within training lists to capture subtle affinity nuances. Extensive experiments demonstrate that AbLWR significantly outperforms state-of-the-art baselines, improving the Precision@1 (P@1) by over 10$\%$ in randomized cross-validation experiments. Notably, case studies on Influenza and IL-33 validate its practical utility, demonstrating robust ranking consistency in distinguishing subtle viral mutations and efficiently prioritizing top-tier candidates for wet-lab screening.