Canonicalized Stable-List Replay for Private Federated Continual Learning over Language-Model Embeddings

Federated continual learning (FCL) lets distributed clients adapt language-model heads to evolving NLP tasks without sharing raw text. Under user-level differential privacy (DP), replay-based continual learning faces a structural obstacle: clients can release only small noisy lists of candidate replay summaries, and those lists are unordered across clients. We introduce Canonicalized Stable-List Replay (CSLR), where clients privately produce candidate replay distributions over a shared sentence-embedding space and the server aligns them using signatures induced by public anchor sentences. The anchors provide identifiability for aggregation rather than additional replay data. We prove that, under an observable anchor-signature margin, $O(\log(N/η)/p)$ anchors distinguish $N$ candidate list elements with probability at least $1-η$, and we give a scoped anchorless non-identifiability result for unordered-label oracle models. Across five seeds on continual classification, NER, and dialogue benchmarks, CSLR improves the final average task metric by 3.9--5.6 points over the strongest non-CSLR DP baseline at $\eps=4$ under the reported replay-release budget, while also outperforming Hungarian and optimal-transport matchers. The formal privacy guarantee covers replay release; end-to-end private training additionally requires composition with a private optimizer for task-head updates.