We address the open problem of training hypernetworks for Controllable Pareto Front Learning (CPFL) under split feasibility conditions with rigorous theoretical guarantees. We reformulate the constrained Pareto problem as a Bi-Level Scalarized Split Problem (BSSP) and propose the Adaptive Balanced Penalty (ABP) algorithm, whose three gradient components -- optimality, set feasibility, and image feasibility -- are blended through an adaptive indicator driven by a computable lower bound. Using a novel convex surrogate technique, we prove full-sequence convergence under standard convexity and Robbins-Monro step-size assumptions. The ABP penalty structure is then translated into a two-phase, feasibility-first training strategy for Hyper-MLP and HyperTrans architectures (ABP-HyperNet). To evaluate constrained CPFL, we introduce the Expected Feasible Hypervolume (EFHV), which jointly captures solution quality and constraint satisfaction. Experiments on five multi-objective benchmarks validate the ABP solver against ground truth, while three multi-task learning datasets demonstrate that ABP-HyperNet achieves up to 2.3x higher EFHV than unconstrained baselines by raising feasibility from 36-49% to 87-100%.